. >> if you look at the overall trend that this report shows america is becoming an unmarried nation to a greater degree. we are marrying later and having children later in life. these are a necessity. things that are not only about women but men as well. >> for people across class, this is something that everyone needs access to. professional women who want ph.d.s and put off having children down to women in their first starting to date and all this. the the things you need across class. >> question all the way in the back. >> i am annabel fisher. did a professional trained clinician. my question is the two part question. how large was your sample? and when you look at women in the work force, did you take into account the men and women coming back from the wars iraq, iran and afghanistan? which has absolutely changed their family situation, financial situation and the need which is quite important to look at, both parents working or single-family, announcing change and the second thing i would like to ask in regards to domestic violence because i worked with women with domestic vio